{"id":5966,"date":"2013-11-29T14:00:43","date_gmt":"2013-11-29T14:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/?p=5966"},"modified":"2021-02-09T09:51:53","modified_gmt":"2021-02-09T09:51:53","slug":"things-will-understand-youre-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/things-will-understand-youre-married\/","title":{"rendered":"Things You Will Only Understand Once You\u2019re Married"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5994\" title=\"Things You Will Only Understand Once You\u2019re Married\" src=\"https:\/\/weddingdates-wp-uk.s3.eu-west-1.amazonaws.com\/2013\/11\/il_570xN.470930072_3d7g.jpg\" alt=\"Things You Will Only Understand Once You\u2019re Married\" width=\"570\" height=\"328\" srcset=\"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/il_570xN.470930072_3d7g.jpg 570w, https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/il_570xN.470930072_3d7g-300x172.jpg 300w, https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/il_570xN.470930072_3d7g-89x50.jpg 89w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 570px) 100vw, 570px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Okay, so as I write this, I realize I\u2019m not actually married. I have no intentions of getting married (anytime soon anyway) but I do understand relationships. AND I\u2019ve done a little bit of research on the subject of <a title=\"marriage\" href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingdates.ie\/blog\/makes-marriage-material\/\" data-wpel-link=\"external\" rel=\"nofollow\">marriage<\/a> (from the guys here in the office and friends) and apparently there are just a few things that will only become clear to you once your married.<\/p>\n<p>With a little help from some of our friends, here are some things you will only understand once you\u2019re married&#8230;.<\/p>\n<h2>The Idea of Forever is Really Forever<\/h2>\n<p>This is the one comment we\u2019ve heard from every newlywed who has ever crossed our paths. The word forever kinda just sinks in. It may sounds a little depressing at first, but forever isn\u2019t always a bad thing. And in today\u2019s world, there are very little things we get forever!<\/p>\n<h2>Really Knowing What Commitment Can Mean<\/h2>\n<p>For better or worse really means for better or worse! It doesn\u2019t just mean holding someone\u2019s hair when they get sick (although, thank you for that too), it means putting up with us at our very worst and making sacrifices for your loved one. It\u2019s hard, but so rewarding when who have someone who does the same.<\/p>\n<h2>Hating The Person You Love The Most<\/h2>\n<p>As much as your love for them is deep, it\u2019s possible to be incredibly annoyed with them at the exact same time. And as much as that can lead to frustrating moments, you will also discover that there is a difference between being right and keeping the peace! Pick your battles\u2026<\/p>\n<h2>You\u2019ll Never Need to Utter Another Word<\/h2>\n<p>In a marriage (and even a long term relationship), there will be times when your partner can read you like a book just from looking into your eyes. Whether it\u2019s your opinion on a decision or communicating in the bedroom, you\u2019ll always have that unspoken language.<\/p>\n<p>Image via <a title=\"etsy\" href=\"http:\/\/www.etsy.com\/ie\/listing\/154396692\/unpainted-mr-mrs-wedding-sign-custom?ref=sr_gallery_5&amp;ga_search_query=mr+and+mrs+wedding+signs&amp;ga_view_type=gallery&amp;ga_ship_to=IE&amp;ga_ref=auto1&amp;ga_search_type=all&amp;ga_facet=mr+and+mrs+wedding+signs\" class=\"broken_link\" data-wpel-link=\"external\" rel=\"nofollow\">Etsy<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Okay, so as I write this, I realize I\u2019m not actually married. I have no intentions of getting married (anytime soon anyway) but I do understand relationships. AND I\u2019ve done a little bit of research on the subject of marriage (from the guys here in the office and friends) and apparently there are just a few things that will only become clear to you once your married. With a little help from some of our friends, here are some things [&hellip;]","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":5994,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[347],"tags":[387,483],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5966"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/15"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5966"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5966\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":50057,"href":"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5966\/revisions\/50057"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5994"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5966"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5966"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/qa.weddingdates.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5966"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}